Tarot Card In Therapy

The use of tarot cards in therapy, when done thoughtfully and ethically, can offer several potential benefits for clients seeking personal growth, self-exploration, and insight. It's important to note that while some clients may find tarot cards to be a valuable tool in therapy, this approach might not be suitable for everyone.

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Jocelyn Farrar
Start a Daily Meditation Practice in 6 Easy Steps

Do you want to live a healthier, peaceful, more balanced life? If so, you might consider starting a daily meditation practice.

 

Meditation is the practice of being fully aware of the present moment. You tune in to how you feel physically, emotionally, and possibly even spiritually. To do so, you use your breath to focus and redirect negative thoughts.

 

There are numerous health benefits to practicing meditation. A daily practice can reduce stress and health problems like heart disease, high blood pressure, and anxiety. This means people often report sleeping better after starting their practice, as well as seeing a reduction in chronic pain.

 

But meditation doesn't just improve physical health. A consistent practice can also improve your self-image and encourage optimism and positivity. In turn, people who practice meditation also notice an improvement in conditions like depression.

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How To Avoid Falling Victim To Negative Thoughts

Ever felt trapped inside your head? Lost in an internal world where you are deluged by your negative self-talk?

 

A small amount of self-talk is perfectly normal and helps us navigate through our busy lives. While getting ready in the morning, mumbling a verbal to-do list is a harmless but useful memory aid.

 

When your internal dialogue starts to become hyper-critical and cyclical, you may need to take action before you start believing in a distorted image of yourself. If you have an underlying mental health diagnosis, negative thoughts may exacerbate a low mood or intensify your secret fears.

 

If more than half of your internal thoughts stem from a place of pessimism, this may be a good indication that your negative thinking is getting out of control.

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Build Confidence: Small Tips for Big Results

Everyone has the occasional emotional wobble when they lack self-confidence. Sometimes, a lack of confidence can grow and become a real challenge. Whether you often feel powerless or have low self-esteem, these tips can help. They involve easy-to-use strategies that will gradually build your confidence each day.

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Silent Night, Stressful Night: 4 Ways to Deal with Holiday Anxiety

From White Christmas to Miracle on 34th Street, there's nothing like kicking back and watching a nostalgic movie during the holidays. But while the families in those movies celebrate the season with sublime shows, fancy dinners, and an understanding of the true meaning of Christmas, your holiday season might feel anything but picture perfect.

From family drama to awkward social situations and even gift-giving woes, the holidays can be a breeding ground for stress and anxiety. If you already struggle with keeping your calm, you might even dread the month of December. But there's no reason to hide out and binge-watch while your family celebrates: knowing how to manage your anxiety is the first step to surviving the season-even if it's not Hollywood-perfect.

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When Mental Health Is an Emergency: What To Do and Say

It's not always easy to tell when someone is in a mental health crisis. Sometimes, people might seem perfectly fine on the outside, but they're struggling inside. That's why it's essential to be aware of the warning signs of a mental health emergency and know what to do if you encounter someone who is in crisis.

This post will highlight some signs to watch for and provide tips to help you care for a friend who is struggling. It will also provide contact information on where to get help with mental health services.

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Navigating Mental Health With Your Child as They Go Back to School

Youth across the nation have struggled to endure the loss of normalcy throughout the pandemic, from Zoom classes to navigating the hallways wearing a mask. Mentally, COVID has done a number on children and adults alike, but school-aged kids have suffered a lot of loss, from graduation ceremonies, first days of school, and an overall disruption to their learning and social development.

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Preparing Your Loved Ones for Your Death

Death is not really something anyone wants to talk about, or even really think about. Unfortunately, it's an unavoidable fact that you will die. It could happen later today, or 70 years from now, but you will, in fact, die at some point. Because death could come at any minute, regardless of how old or young you are, it is important to prepare those you love for your death. Here are some things you need to discuss with your trusted loved ones before death comes calling.

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How to Let Go of Toxic Shame and Guilt - The Path to Freedom

If letting go of feelings of shame, guilt, or past mistakes is difficult for you, you're not alone. Letting go of disappointments or what you see as a failure is a common struggle for many. The process takes time, self-forgiveness, and a great deal of self-compassion, which isn't easy. The road is a long one that requires much more than simply deciding it's time to move on, and there are no shortcuts. For many, it's much simpler to forgive others than to forgive themselves.

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Seasonal Affective Disorder: Causes, Symptoms, and Treatment

Seasonal Affective Disorder, or SAD, is a form of depression that usually begins in the fall and lasts throughout the winter months, though there are also less common occurrences of SAD in the spring and summer. Many people who are affective by SAD simply shrug it off or do not seek treatment, but the truth is that it's possible to deal with the symptoms and keep moods elevated year-round. Below are some of the common symptoms, risk factors, and treatments associated with Seasonal Affective Disorder.

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Tips for Adoptive Parents: Answering Awkward and Inappropriate Questions

Adopting a child is a rewarding experience, but it also comes with certain challenges. One of these is explaining the process to friends and family members. You may find that the people in your life have certain misconceptions about adoption. They may ask questions that seem strange or even offensive. Try to have patience and give people the benefit of the doubt. In most cases, they simply need some time and guidance to better understand your situation. Here are some tips to help you educate your friends and family about adoption.

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How to Recognize and Respond to Hallucinations and Delusions

Hallucinations and Delusions are the hallmark symptoms of psychosis. A person in psychosis experiences reality very differently from the general population. The juxtaposition of a person in psychosis and a person not in psychosis often leads to feelings of great discomfort, fear, confusion, and stress for both parties. Whether from schizophrenia, bipolar disorder, brain injury, or the increased use of drugs such as crystal methamphetamine, experiencing these symptoms in some form is not entirely uncommon.

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9 Signs That It's Borderline Personality Disorder

Borderline personality disorder (BPD), also known as an emotionally unstable personality disorder, is one of the most difficult mental health conditions to identify, and even highly trained professionals sometimes misdiagnose it. According to the DSM-5, the publication that specifies diagnostic criteria for mental disorders, there are nine things to look out for. If you or someone you know exhibits five or more of the signs listed below, you may want to consult a mental health professional.

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Dependent Personality Disorder: An Overview

Dependent personality disorder involves excessive clinginess, neediness, submissive behavior, and fear of abandonment, stemming from factors like low self-esteem and negative experiences early in life. People with a dependent personality disorder often have trouble making decisions on their own. It doesn't matter whether the decision is important or insignificant; in both cases, they require help and reassurance from another person.

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10 Small Steps to Improving Any Relationship

Are you struggling to get along with someone close to you? A difficult relationship--whether it's with a life partner, friend, or co-worker--can do more than frustrate you; it can harm your health and well-being. But don't be too quick to give up. There are ways to improve any relationship, and you don't have to go to great lengths to make things better. In fact, often it's the small steps that can help you turn a corner and reverse negative feelings. Try these ten tips to boost any relationship, and learn to enjoy rather than antagonize each other.

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5 Ground Rules that Could Save Your Relationship

When we first fall in love, we portray our best possible self to our partner. We always look our best. We become interested in what they're interested in. We may even change our behavior to hide those quirks and flaws that we all have but don't want anyone to know about. However, with long term relationships, our true selves will eventually win out and conflict will undoubtedly ensue. This isn't necessarily a bad thing. Disagreements and varying points of view are normal parts of a healthy relationship. But in order to keep them from going nuclear, couples should have some ground rules.

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Conflict Resolution: the Inevitability of Conflict

Before getting into any specifics about your conflict, it's fundamental to acknowledge that some conflicts will always exist, or at least cannot be resolved without excessive effort. This doesn't necessarily mean that your pressing conflict is irreconcilable, but it does mean that you should take a step back and consider just how unavoidable that conflict really is. How invested are all the involved parties? Is there a solution that is reasonable, not only from your perspective but from a more objective viewpoint as well? To help answer this, consider the aspects of gravity and balance.

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Conflict Resolution: Mental Preparation

When it comes to conflict resolution, the preparation beforehand can be just as important as the negotiation itself. One key and often overlooked element of proper preparation is embracing a suitable mentality. Here are some useful steps for doing just that.

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Conflict Resolution: Good Habits During Negotiations

When it comes to conflicts, there's a lot you can do to prepare beforehand and there's a lot to consider and reflect on afterwards, but the most difficult part is often sticking to a plan during the heat of the moment. It's easy to be sidetracked, which is why you should consider the following tips for building good negotiating habits.

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